I like the way you resolve issues. I am a 22-year undergraduate. There is this girl I came in contact with four years ago. She is the kind of woman no man can resist.
I took her home for introduction to my family last year but recently noticed she is an ogbanje (familiar spirit).Should I ignore her or go ahead to marry her. We are both in love with each other. I don’t know what to do.
Anxious Boy Friend
Dear Anxious Friend,
How did you come about the knowledge that she has familiar spirit? Whosoever told you of her spiritual identity, ought to have told you that with God on your side, nothing is impossible?
What you should do is to take her for deliverance. It is immaterial whether you want to marry her or not. God may have brought you two together to help point her at the direction to go to rid her of this problem. We meet in life for different reasons and helping her to stabilise spiritually would definitely help focus her life in such a way she would forever thank you for being part of her life.
Besides, until now she may not know the spiritual problem confronting her at all. That you were given the knowledge of her spiritual leakage is an indication of your importance in her life.
Because this kind needs the presence and knowledge of God to neutralise, there is the need for you to first go to God in prayers for both direction and the extent of your involvement in this matter.
If God actually brought her your way for you to help, He would tell you where to get the right assistance for her.
If you trust God and have this confidence in Him that there is nothing He cannot do, there is no harm in marrying her. The reality of life is such that a lot of us suffer from one spiritual problem or the other without the person knowing why a particular situation persists in his or her life. Simply because you now know about hers, doesn’t absolve you of the presence of spiritual complications in your own life too. Who knows in helping her find a solution to hers, you also help liberate yourself too from the grip of powers fighting against your destiny.
However at 22, certain things are more important to you now than the issue of who to marry or not. You still have a long time to be ready for the task you have elected to shoulder now. This is because to conquer this kind of problem one must have both time and determination to concentrate on the kind of intercessory prayers required to helping your friend overcome.
You also have to be spiritually strong to avoid the repercussions that come from helping someone under some spiritual authority. Being in school and with your age, you have to make up your mind to put in extra efforts for the sake of the love you have for her.
Such sacrifices come with true love.
Good luck.
Posts
No comments:
Post a Comment