My Ex Calls For Reunion

Dear Agatha,

When I was 20 years of age I took blood oath with my first girlfriend. That was in 2000. After graduation, I got employed into a stock-broking firm and rose to become a head of department. We broke up due to financial conflicts.

I met my wife when I went for the introduction ceremony of a friend. We have been married for eight years now and blessed with three sons. I now have my own firm and doing very well.

Last week, my ex started calling me, even though she knows I am married, that we get together since she is yet to marry because of the blood oath we took. According to her it can only be broken if we got back together.

Of course, I declined and told my wife about it because we don’t have secrets between us.

I feel for her but what can I do to help her?

Nosa.

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Dear Nosa,

You can help her by assisting her to go for deliverance. Your grace may be coming from your wife’s spiritual standing with God. Not everyone is that lucky. Blood oath carries along with it a very strong spiritual implication, which has to be broken through deliverance of both or one of the parties to move forward in life.

While insisting that her solution isn’t with you, help her go to any strong deliverance pastor you know to conduct a deliverance session for her.

Whether you like it or not, that exchange of blood gives her some spiritual powers over you, the type she can manipulate to her advantage if she is the diabolical type. And without still unmarried and trying her utmost best to get back with you, it’s best you ensure she gets off your back by doing all you can do now to help her get the deliverance from the consequences of the blood oath both of you took.

Since she is the one who seems to be carrying the baggage of that oath, plead for the understanding of your wife to ensure your ex becomes a permanent feature of the past else she could be a huge thorn in the harmony of your home. This is because a desperate and unhappy woman is capable of doing anything especially if the object of her desire seems to be having all the luck in the world.

Her calling you and insisting she wants to become a part of your life is only just the beginning so you need the help of an anointed man of God not only to conduct a deliverance on her but to assure that she is free to move on with her life.

In addition to the spiritual aspect, there is the psychological aspect to this issue, that of her blaming the oath for her predicament. She has to know that whatever setback is confronting her, can be redressed with right attitude by her.

Good luck.

I Love Him, But Can’t Grant Him His Demand

Dear Agatha,

There is this man who has a very comfortable job and who is willing to take care of me but says the only condition he will do that for me is for me to sleep with him.

According to him, sex will prompt closeness between the two of us. He has tried to make love to me. I don’t want to lose him but also don’t want to sleep with him. Please help me out.

Confused Spinster.

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Dear confused Spinster,

If this man is actually interested in helping you, he will not insist he sleeps with you as a condition for help.

Any man who says the only condition he will help a woman is to sleep with her is out to defraud her body. Such men are not to be trusted because once they get their fill of a woman, they will move on to another.

If this man is actually interested in helping or interested in you, he won’t give you such a condition at all. That he did, shows he is lacking respect for you as a woman. As a matter of fact you should walk away from him and do not contemplate the issue because you can get yourself confused in the process.

A man who is really interested in a woman doesn’t make such a proposition to her. To such a man, sex can always wait and certainly he doesn’t think it as a motivation for him to do anything for her. He offers assistance because he feels like it and out of a genuine desire to offer assistance to a friend and a woman that has touched a very special place in his heart.

With this type of man there are no guarantee that he won’t leave you for another woman once he has had you. He will still leave you whether you sleep with him or not. For him, sex is a game he enjoys engaging in to his delight and pleasure. He senses you are desperate for his help and so wants to use it to do his bidding. If you do it now, there is no stopping the number of times he will use your desire for his help to blackmail you into doing it.

Insist that you are not ready to sleep with him now or later, if he wants to help you, but until your wedding night. He has one choice: to help you without conditions or allow you go your way.

Money will come and go. Your reputation as a woman remains priceless. If you on the altar of money allow it to slip away, it can never be repurchased with all the money in the world. People in the know will always refer to it, no matter how rich you become in life.

As a young girl, learn from this early beginning that nothing glories a woman more than hard work. Granted it is a painful process up the ladder but in the long run it gives the woman the edge over others who slept their way to the top. Look for something on low scale you can do with or without the help of a man, eventually you will make more than enough to meet your basic needs and be able to make your own rules without any man forcing his choices on you.

Learn to be focused as well as determined to make it on your own. With God on your side, the sky will be just the beginning for you.

Good luck.