Lack of time is affecting us

Dear Agatha, 

There is this girl I proposed to marry and who was initially anxious about the whole thing. We promised to keep seeing each other as often as possible but one thing or the other tampered with this arrangement.  It is really affecting the prospect of our relationship. Please advice me on what to do.

Worried Guy.

Dear Worried Guy,

Where is there is a way, there is always a will. Life is all about managing our time adequately. There is no moving forward in life for the person who cannot manage his or her time. You have to learn this early the essence of segmenting every aspect of life else you risk losing even that which you are holding on to.

Relationship is as important as work.

Therefore, no matter how busy both of you get, you must always find time to be together.

It is very essential else you risk losing everything that the relationship means to you.

Work will never cease to be hence the need for you to arrange your life in such a way that it doesn’t interfere with the growth of your relationship.

Besides, a woman is always in need of the attention of her man. If you keep giving her excuses on why you appear not to have time for her, chances are she will find comfort somewhere else.

Therefore, if she is as important to you as you claim, learn to manage your time effectively.

Good luck.