Thursday, March 1, 2012

Can she end blood oath with first love?

Aghata Edo,08054500526 e-mail: gataedo@yahoo.com


Dear Agatha,
Please help me out, l am dying.
I am a graduate of University of Nigeria, Nsukka. Please, l want you to use your God-given talent to solve this problem.
There is a young lady l fell in love with last year during the end of my service year in last year. In the short time we met, she had told me everything about her. From what she told me, I immediately detected an inherent problem.
According to her, her former boyfriend deceived her into having a blood covenant with him in her first year in the university, when she was 17 years of age.
This guy was in his final year then. He did this out of fear of losing her. However, this hasn’t stopped the man from cheating on her. Apart from the stories she has heard, she also has confirmations of his cheating on her. Because of this, she wants to break the relationship.
Even though the guy still wants to marry her, she has come to the knowledge that blood oath isn’t healthy spiritually and totally against her faith.
So what do you advise us on how to break that covenant?
Emmy.

Dear Emmy,
This is a deliverance case because so many spiritual pollutions accompany blood covenant. Among all the covenants, blood and sex covenants are the ones with the most spiritual consequences.
Since she still has access to the man she went into the covenant with, the problem is half-solved. She should go to the man and discuss the need for them to break the covenant through a deliverance process.
To get him to listen to her, it would be in her interest not to tell him about her change of heart about the relationship. By simply pointing him at the inherent spiritual implications of blood covenant to both of them, especially if either of the parties isn’t faithful to the other, he would listen to her.
She should use the advantage of his unfaithfulness to make him desire the discontinuation of the blood covenant since he is likely to suffer more from any repercussion.
Blood oath is like a double-edged sword. Even if a dating couple ends up getting married, it is still important they break the covenant because blood is the essence of man. It envelops the spiritual mystery of man. Its evaporation from the body signifies the end of life, so God holds it very precious. Nobody has the right to toy with it. That is why the bond between mother and child is eternally strong. When a man and a woman have the burden of a blood covenant between them, the slightest provocation and anger conjures more spiritual problems that it would ordinarily have incurred because, in addition to sex, marriage oath and blood oath was also exchanged.
This explains why some couples die together leaving their children, irrespective of their ages, to map out their lives on their own.
It is important they both realise that the process of breaking the covenant isn’t as easy as that which led to it. While it takes only two people to go into it, it takes more than that number to be completely free from it.
Before approaching him, she should make all necessary arrangements with her spiritual leaders in the church so that they can give her and her former boyfriend all the spiritual support they need to get out of this.
It is only after the oath is broken she should tell him of her decision to discontinue with the relationship.
To protect your relationship from the consequences of this blood oath between your girlfriend and her former boyfriend, it is important you stay away from having sex with her because third parties suffer disappointments as a result of the trauma that characterises the association with them. Even after the deliverance, allow sex to remain in the cupboard until you both get married. You may not find it easy to do, but it pays to wait until the time is ripe.
Help her along with prayers; give her all the encouragement to go through the process because she needs boldness and complete faith in God to undo what she has done.
She may have done it out of ignorance, but it won’t stop the pains of the repercussion from happening.
Good luck.

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