I’m still single at 30

Dear Agatha,

I’m 30 years old. I’m a National Certificate of Education (NCE) holder. 

You won’t believe that I have no boyfriend, not to talk of a husband. The strange thing is that no man is coming my way when I am supposed to marry and have kids. I’m confused.

Worried Girl.

Dear Worried Girl,

Don’t be. There is always a time and season for everything. God is never known to be late or early. His time is always right for those who trust and belief in Him.

As we are different in faces and character, so are our seasons.

If you know the worth of the God you serve, you won’t worry too much unless there is something you aren’t doing right or didn’t do in your previous do relationships.

Sometimes, women confuse their desires with what is really important in life. If you are one of those women who didn’t get right her priority, who put materialist considerations above love and prospect of the man, then you have nobody to blame but your own ideals.

But if all you have ever wanted was someone to love and cherish you always, you will eventually get that special man.

Some blessings come only when we know the value of what God is giving to us. Yes, marriage is wired into our gene even before we were born, the truth is not every adult knows what to do with it if given, when the time isn’t right for such person.

It is the reason divorce cases are daily on the rise. Many who rush into marriage, find out that they simply cannot cope with its numerous challenges as well as adjustments. Only those who know the value of gold, cherish it.

While you are praying for a husband, take the time out to prepare yourself psychologically to prevent the tales of woe a lot of people are telling about their own choices.

It is always best to wait a little bit and be happy in a marriage than to rush into it only to find the nearest exit door minutes after signing the dotted lines.

Like everything else in life, marriage requires absolute preparations to make it right.

By using this period judiciously, you will end up happier than those who didn’t have time to prepare at all.

Always be prayerful for the discerning spirit to recognize when that special man comes.

Many women end up being spinsters because they lack the gift to identify their very own Mr.Right. Refuse to be influenced by the world’s definition of who is right for you and who isn’t.

Good luck.

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