If a man lacks cash to try love

With Auntie Agatha, gataedo@yahoo.com, agatha.edo@gmail.com, Tel: 08054500626 Dear Agatha, The numerous pieces of advice to people over the years cannot be quantified. What should a man do when he is not buoyant to fall in love, indulge in an affair? Your Reader. Dear Reader, In the first place, money isn’t needed to fall in love. Love is priceless and a natural pull to the one person that is special. To append it to money is to devalue what God has given freely. Don’t hold back on the feeling when you see a woman who reciprocates what you feel for her. If you are both responsible about it, you won’t need money beyond the normal money you need daily to meet your basic needs in life. However problems come when a couple decides to be irresponsible about the whole affair. Love has its season, planting, consolidating and harvesting. If you are wise not to migrate prematurely into the future seasons of the relationship, you will not need to worry about the financial aspect too much. Money becomes a problem in the relationship when you engage in sex and the woman gets pregnant and need money for either evacuation or to keep the baby. If both of you are willing to wait, to enable you as the man put structures that would make life manageable for both of you in place especially when the children begin to come, you won’t have problems. The most important thing for you is to be truthful to yourself and the woman. Don’t make pledges you lack the financial ability to keep. Be honest with whom you are, this way, she would know what she is going into and not make unnecessary demands on you. Good luck