Dear Agatha,
I have a challenge with my boyfriend who seems to favour passionate romance. Not that he isn’t good in the act of lovemaking but is more into romance; I am not. What do I do?
Concerned Girlfriend.
Dear Concerned Girlfriend,
Sincerely, many women would consider you a very lucky woman, because it is something of a rarity to find in one package a man who has passion for romance as well as the act of sex.
Other women would welcome this because his passion would help bring them to constant satisfaction, the essence of lovemaking. What you should do is to properly guide him on how he can bring about your very best. Unlike most women who have to labour to get their men interested in the act of romance, yours come ready made. Granted that sometimes touching some areas of your body can be a turn off, but the truth remains that once you get involved, allow your mind to flow with the rhythm of his beat, you will have a more satisfying trip with him.
To prevent him overdoing the romance thing, you must constantly tell him when you are not comfortable with his act, but to dismiss everything he is doing is to also prevent his fun.
Relationship is a symbiotic thing. Two must agree to be one. To achieve this, the two must learn to be selfless and supportive of the other, else the relationship becomes a one-sided affair, one that can destroy something meant to be beautiful.
Be wise not to condemn his way else you end up creating problems for yourself.
Good luck.
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