Won’t circumcision deny me good sex?

With Auntie Agatha, gataedo@yahoo.com, agatha.edo@gmail.com, Tel: 08054500626 Dear Agatha, I am a lady of 23 years. I recently found out that I was circumcised as a baby. I have been wondering if I can enjoy sex naturally. Worried Lady. Dear Worried Lady, There is no reason you shouldn’t enjoy sex like most circumcised women. There is nothing you can do about a situation that you have no control over. Granted, women who are not circumcised do enjoy sex better, but there is no peak a circumcised woman can’t get to if she knows her onion. Circumcision should not be an excuse for a woman not to enjoy sex. This is because sex is both a process and an attitude. A lot depends on the kind of attitude you have towards sex. Most of the time, problems come when we adopt the wrong attitude to sex. You get to an age when sex becomes a tool of pleasure, communication, consolidation and a way of life, when it ceases to be wrong or forbidden. When that time comes, it becomes so right, expansive and pleasurable. Honestly the mystery and pleasure of sex belong to those who are broad-minded. It also depends on the attitude of one’s partner. Fortunately, the woman is blessed with the depth and wisdom to draw any man out of his shell. To enjoy quality time with your husband, develop a very deep sense of adventure. You can achieve this by the different kinds of position you adopt. Some positions give the woman more pleasure than others. Even if you have been circumcised, your erotic points remain intact. All you have to do is to discover where those spots are. Once you find them out, encourage your man to concentrate on those zones, to give you ultimate pleasure at the point you need it the most. The use of fingertips and tongue can achieve magical results when applied at the right time and place. The pleasure of sex isn’t in the act alone, but in all the processes that go with it. Therefore, read up books, discuss on the subject and when the time comes, don’t be limited by your fears. Be proud to be a woman for your husband, the joy of it all to know how to hold on to him and bring him back with your body, soul and mind when he strays. Even if you are not circumcised, but lack the right kind of attitude towards sex, you still will not be able to enjoy sex fully. As a woman, you have it in you to enjoy sex any day and time, but wait until you are married. Marriage is the platform a woman needs to be fully happy. Just make up your mind to enjoy sex when you marry because it is a special gift from God. Good luck.