She frowns at my tiny penis

With Auntie Agatha,:email:gataedo@yahoo.com:agatha.edo@gmail.com; Tel:08054500626
Dear Agatha,

I enjoy your articles a lot. My problem has to do with the size of my manhood. It is so tiny that most times when I am making love to my girlfriend, she knits her brow. I don’t need anyone to tell me why she is wearing such a face. Although she pretends there is no problem, I am scared of losing her. What should I do about it?

Mic.



Dear Mic,

What you should do is open your mind to new and innovative ways of making love irrespective of the size of your manhood. Most times, satisfaction doesn’t come from the size but the sense of adventure a couple applies to the act of lovemaking.

A man can be small-sized but achieve premium performance if he knows what to do with his woman’s body as well as his willingness to accept help from the woman. All it takes to make the difference is a keen sense of imagination.

If you want to be happy as a man, learn to accept the way you are. Refuse to be dwarfed by the size of your organ. We all come with one limitations or the other. Don’t offer apology to anyone for something you didn’t help create or input in its creations. Once you are able to conquer that, you open your mind better to learning.

Follow this by living your fantasies. More often than not, fantasies make a lot of differences in the bedroom. By giving free rein to all your secret dreams, the ones you had as a child and young man growing up, there is no height in the world of satisfaction you cannot take your woman to.

For your woman to get the best of you and remove that look from her face, use your fingers and tongue liberally to get her very close to peak. Work thoroughly on her body, senses with your fingers and tongue. Only go into her when she is almost there, she won’t even notice your size because by the time all she wants is a release from the emotional turmoil your kind of lovemaking has put her.

Even if a man is generously endowed and lacks what it takes to bring out the woman in his partner, the result won’t be any difference from what you have achieved so far.

Also, it is important to give your woman the freedom to also do whatever she likes with your body. She may have one or two ideas on how things can be better between the two of you but is afraid of what you would think of her.

This is where the power of communication comes to play. Enlist the support of your woman by first listening to her views concerning your size. Allow her to bare her mind; don’t feel offended because you are both in it together. Don’t see her views as criticising you or indications that you are not good enough for her. That she is still allowing you to make love to her means, she is committed to you and would only be too willing to help if asked.

This is important if really you want to help yourself get over whatever you think is the problem. More often than not, it isn’t the size of a man’s organ that puts a woman off but the attitude of the man. If you adopt a broadminded approach to the issue, you will discover that what you think is a burden isn’t after all. Good sex isn’t about the size but the understanding, maturity and friendship put into it.

Good luck.