Can’t bear women’s crazy demands…

Dear Agatha,

There is this persistent problem in my relationships. Often than not the problems come from the women, I find out that it is either they are liars or making unreasonable demands on me. As a person these are things I cannot tolerate. I need your advice on how to react to these things and secondly, I need a very responsible and God fearing girl. My mobile number is 07036226165.

Hazor.

Dear Hazor, 

One thing you must get straight is the fact that there is no perfect person anywhere. You aren’t perfect yourself so don’t expect any of these women you come across to be.

Also the fact that you are having problems with all these women shows that the major issue is coming from you. All these women can’t be wrong and you right. Life doesn’t work that way. Life is a complete process of give and take.

Therefore you must examine your own contributions to what is happening to you. Who are you? Why is it so difficult for you to get along with all these women? How come you appear to be making the same kind of choice of women, those that lie as well as those who want money from you?

Is it that these are the only women you met or the fact that you are also economical with the truth when you meet them? 

Finding another woman is not much a problem as you first going back to the drawing board to find out what precisely you want in a woman and the kind of one who can meet your demands as a man. 

One, is knowing the kind of woman you want; another is finding that particular one among the kind you want who has the patience and understanding to adapt to your person. 

You also must be prepared to make a shift from the position you are in now. There is no desiring perfection in another person without you refusing to shift too.

If you don’t first clear this, you will keep meeting with disappointments in your relationships. 

Good luck.