I have a problem with my girlfriend at school. She caught me with another girl in my room and decided to quit the relationship. But my major problem is that I love her so much. I want her but don't know how to get her back.
I need your assistance.
Chinedu.
Dear Chinedu,
You have offended your girlfriend in one of the worst ways a man can hurt a woman. You destroyed whatever trust, confidence and respect she had for you. Finding you in the arms of another woman is akin to ripping her heart apart. It isn’t only when a man assaults a woman that he devalues her; when a man goes outside his official relationship to have an affair with another woman, he not only devalues the official woman in his life but also opens her to the scorn of mischievous minded persons.
Such an act also calls to question the feelings you both share. A relationship is essentially between two people who trust each other with everything about them, including their spiritual lives. Relationship goes beyond the physical, it is a highly spiritual because it involves things we don’t see. Any mistake you make in the choice of this other woman could affect her in more ways than you imagine. It could affect her health in the sense that you put her at risk of contacting any disease the other lady may have and have passed on to you.
So when a man goes outside his official partner to have an affair, not only is he having an affair with all the other men the woman may have been with but is also unwittingly passing the same affairs to his official woman since anything he contacts from this affair, he passes to the woman in his life who not only suffers the injury of his betrayal but his indiscretion as well.
Involving a third party not only corrupts but also introduce problems that ordinarily should not manifest.
By sharing her space in your heart and life with another woman would not only cause her physical pains but also spiritual pains which is why you must beg for her forgiveness as fast as you can.
If you can’t go on your own, enlist the help of friends she respect and send them to beg her to forgive you.
You have to create the opportunity for her to give you the chance to explain and this can only happen if you first go to beg her.
In begging be truthful and not try to put the blame on any other person. Tell her frankly what drove you to the other woman and how too late you realised she is wrong for you.
The truth may not be what your girlfriend wants to hear at the time but it would help her realise the sincerity in you and how much she would miss all that if she leaves you for another man.
It would also make forgiveness quicker than telling her pack of lies which in the long run could ruin your relationship beyond redemption.
There is still no alternative to telling the truth so tell her why you went into it. It would help her value your promises never to do that again since such promise would be coming from a sincere heart.
Good luck.
I need your assistance.
Chinedu.
Dear Chinedu,
You have offended your girlfriend in one of the worst ways a man can hurt a woman. You destroyed whatever trust, confidence and respect she had for you. Finding you in the arms of another woman is akin to ripping her heart apart. It isn’t only when a man assaults a woman that he devalues her; when a man goes outside his official relationship to have an affair with another woman, he not only devalues the official woman in his life but also opens her to the scorn of mischievous minded persons.
Such an act also calls to question the feelings you both share. A relationship is essentially between two people who trust each other with everything about them, including their spiritual lives. Relationship goes beyond the physical, it is a highly spiritual because it involves things we don’t see. Any mistake you make in the choice of this other woman could affect her in more ways than you imagine. It could affect her health in the sense that you put her at risk of contacting any disease the other lady may have and have passed on to you.
So when a man goes outside his official partner to have an affair, not only is he having an affair with all the other men the woman may have been with but is also unwittingly passing the same affairs to his official woman since anything he contacts from this affair, he passes to the woman in his life who not only suffers the injury of his betrayal but his indiscretion as well.
Involving a third party not only corrupts but also introduce problems that ordinarily should not manifest.
By sharing her space in your heart and life with another woman would not only cause her physical pains but also spiritual pains which is why you must beg for her forgiveness as fast as you can.
If you can’t go on your own, enlist the help of friends she respect and send them to beg her to forgive you.
You have to create the opportunity for her to give you the chance to explain and this can only happen if you first go to beg her.
In begging be truthful and not try to put the blame on any other person. Tell her frankly what drove you to the other woman and how too late you realised she is wrong for you.
The truth may not be what your girlfriend wants to hear at the time but it would help her realise the sincerity in you and how much she would miss all that if she leaves you for another man.
It would also make forgiveness quicker than telling her pack of lies which in the long run could ruin your relationship beyond redemption.
There is still no alternative to telling the truth so tell her why you went into it. It would help her value your promises never to do that again since such promise would be coming from a sincere heart.
Good luck.
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