Dear Agatha,
I really enjoyed your response to my problem. It seems God specifically created you for only me. May the good Lord reward you immensely in Jesus name. Amen.
Like Oliver Twist, I’ve come again ‘to ask for more.’ This time, there is this disturbing question I want you to answer for me. Is it right for a girl to tell a man just coming to her that she is till a virgin?
Blessing.
Dear Blessing,
It is neither here nor there. Telling him would depend on the questions being asked or the topics being discussed.
If the question bothers on the woman’s virginity, nothing stops her from giving him an honest answer. This is simply because it pays to tell the truth from the beginning otherwise such information should not be given on a first date. A couple’s first meeting should be devoid of such private issues or things that could stampede the relationship into hasty or ill-conceived conclusion.
It is always best for a woman to keep her lips sealed on such very personal matters until the occasion calls for it. Flaunting the fact of her virginity on every opportunity to the face of a guy could result into her falling into the wrong hands. Some mischievous men excited at the thought of being a woman’s first, could capitalise and manipulate such intimate information to their advantage.
Besides, a man who truly loves a woman would not bother about such information. Some men actually discover that fact about their girls, years later.
A woman should give herself and the man the opportunity to build something very tangible first before divulging this vital information.
Good luck.
I really enjoyed your response to my problem. It seems God specifically created you for only me. May the good Lord reward you immensely in Jesus name. Amen.
Like Oliver Twist, I’ve come again ‘to ask for more.’ This time, there is this disturbing question I want you to answer for me. Is it right for a girl to tell a man just coming to her that she is till a virgin?
Blessing.
Dear Blessing,
It is neither here nor there. Telling him would depend on the questions being asked or the topics being discussed.
If the question bothers on the woman’s virginity, nothing stops her from giving him an honest answer. This is simply because it pays to tell the truth from the beginning otherwise such information should not be given on a first date. A couple’s first meeting should be devoid of such private issues or things that could stampede the relationship into hasty or ill-conceived conclusion.
It is always best for a woman to keep her lips sealed on such very personal matters until the occasion calls for it. Flaunting the fact of her virginity on every opportunity to the face of a guy could result into her falling into the wrong hands. Some mischievous men excited at the thought of being a woman’s first, could capitalise and manipulate such intimate information to their advantage.
Besides, a man who truly loves a woman would not bother about such information. Some men actually discover that fact about their girls, years later.
A woman should give herself and the man the opportunity to build something very tangible first before divulging this vital information.
Good luck.
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