Dear Agatha,
I really need your advice on how to go about this issue bothering my mind. There is this lady who has been my friend in the last one month. We are just beginning to know each other. In between this period, I have developed a kind of interest for her, because of the way she is, but don't know how to approach and tell her what I have in mind.
Since I have known her, I have never asked for her phone number, but managed to have it anyway, though I haven’t given her a call yet. The major challenge now is how to approach her with my feelings before someone else does.
Expectant Guy.
Dear Expectant Guy,
Since you and this lady already have a communication line, invite her out for either lunch or dinner to enable both of you relax sufficiently for what you have in mind.
After eating, tell her what you have in mind. Make it very clear to her that at the time you met her, the intention wasn’t to propose romantic relationship with her.
At this juncture, highlight all the qualities you discovered in her, ones you have always desired in your dream woman. Assure her from the beginning that your intentions are honourable and you have no intention of taking advantage of your familiarity with her to lure her into something she doesn’t want to do.
Once you tell her, allow her the freedom of making up her mind as well as the assurance that whatever happens, it would not affect the friendship you have started with her.
If nothing else, telling him would have saved both of you any future regret at not taking hold of a presented opportunity.
Whatever the case may be ensure your feelings and motives are honest, because this is what would count the most at the end of the day.
Good luck.
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