How Does Woman Know Man That Fits?

Dear Agatha,

Please how can one tell a particular man that he is meant to be the special man in a woman’s life? How would the woman know he would be her husband?

Confused Lady.

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Dear Confused Lady,

There are no hard and fast rules about it. But there are basic things a woman who is on the look out for a man must know. She has to begin from herself. Unless a woman knows what she wants from life, know the type of man who can help her achieve these dreams. She would not know what to look out for beyond the general and often irritating tall, rich and handsome qualities a lot of young women canvas.

So, what are your dreams in life, the type of marriage you want?

When you know, it will be easier for a woman to recognise the man who fits into her life. Then the idea of being tall and rich, would feature less to other qualities the man must have. For instance, she would be able to know if the man is responsible, respectful and has the required drive to make it in life.

A man can have physical beauty but out-rightly ugly inside of him. Whereas, someone who is considered not so good looking, may end up being the most beautiful person on the inside.

So, a lot depends on the type of man a woman wants to live with in her life. The choice of a good or bad husband depends on what she wants. Out there are so many men with diverse qualities for every woman to make a choice. When a woman knows what she wants, getting the right man is very easy.

Good luck.